In all my years of dating men, if there’s one thing that’s stuck out like a sore thumb in a man, it’s his insecurity.

At least in all the men I’ve dated, more than half of them were insecure. What’s more surprising is that I’m not the only one who’s had to deal with insecure men.

A better way to put this is to understand that we all know that you all come with some form of baggage (just like we do) that we'll eventually have to deal with if we love you enough.

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I would absolutely go on a date with a single mom and see where it could lead.

I don’t have kids, but I want kids, so if she already has one or two, it would be a bonus.

Source: Shutterstock After sharing a guest-post on step-parenting from the step-child’s point of view, one commenter asked an interesting question: “Should a man with no kids be hesitant to date a woman with kids?

” First, whether a man has children of his own or not, there is nothing wrong with preferring to date women without children.

Almost every woman I know has experienced her share of insecure men.

The funniest part of all this is that most women don’t even know they’re actually in a relationship with an insecure man!

I get questions like this from my female friends all the time.

What bothers me is that some people truly believe that what can be perceived as baggage or a challenge truly prevents good guys from entering a relationship with them.

While the age of the child plays a factor, if you’re not looking for anything serious, you shouldn’t play the “I’ll figure it out” game with a ready-made family.

Further, if you’re not a kid person or don’t want kids, you should not date a woman with kids to see if you’ll change your mind.

I would just be really cautious about getting close to the kid, because if it didn’t work out, I’d feel bad if the kid got attached, then hurt.” “I think it would be a pain.