It sounds like you're recognizing some unhealthy behaviors — and recognizing how they're affecting your relationships. In general, deep-seated issues aren't cured with quick fixes. Everyone's issues are just different, depending on how, as Larkin writes, those mums and dads fucked you up.You're already growing more self-aware about your impulses and triggers. But here are a couple general pieces of advice from my own life: Be upfront with your partners when your daddy issues crop up. If you talk honestly about who you are and where you come from, it might help you to learn more about yourself and connect with your partner.THIS IS THE VERY BEST TYPE OF RELATIONSHIP EVER & BOTH CHERRISH THE OTHER SO MUCH DONT KNOCK IT TILL YOUVE TRIED , ITS NOT FOR EVERY ONE , BUT IS FOR ME ANY ONE INTERESTED POST & A WAY TO CONTACT IN DALLAS FT WORTH AREA FEMALE AGE 40 WANTING A DADDY UP TO 62 YRS OLD TO HAVE THIS 24/7 IS THE BEST I GUESS FROM OTHER POSTS THERE CAN BE DIFFRENT MEANINGS THIS IS MINE BELLA SO FOR YOU REAL LIFE DADS CHERRISH YOUR LITTLE GIRLS & BOYS & BE EMOTIONALY THERE FOR THEM & TEACH THEM TO VALUE THEIR BODIES & STAY PURE DO THE DADDY DAUGHTER THINGS SONS ARE IMPORTANT TOO THOUGH THIS ABSENT FATHER OR DISTANT FATHER THING IS AN EPIDEMIC & HAS A DEVASTATING EFFECT ON CHILDREN GROWING UP ALSO STAY ACTIVE IN THEIR LIVES AS TEENS & YOUNG ADULTS TOOthere is nothing wrong with a woman who wants a father figure as a mate it is very fullfilling for me & i dont believe you have to have real life father issues some may , my parents have ben married 58 yrs i do prefer a man older 20 yrs usually & did like this age diffrence before wanting a father figure / daddy & wen 1st asked to call a man daddy i resisted , but now its what i want & do like having a daddy very much & wish it was easier to find older men whom love to be daddys for younger women in real life relastionships like a dating site just for that wanting a father figure is not a negative but for the rt 2 people very full filling emotionaly ect for both of us they love the affection & attention just as i do & sm what of a disciplinarian & guidance teacher , lover , they are usually very stable ./ settled patient ect i dont want any thing but this this is what is rt for sm people , ive never had any thing more emotionaly fullfilling than the daddy baby girl relationship & it can be based on an age or not ?

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my dad could be very strict at x my real dad & HE WAS ALSO DISTANT WITH ME / but just so theres no confusion here I DO NOT WANT AN INCESTUOUS RELATIONSHIP W/ MY FATHER OR ANY RELATIVE PERIOD IVE NEVER BEEN MOLESTED EITHER I ONLY WANT AN OLDER MAN UNRELATED TOO ME FOR A LONGTERM PARTNER ( A FATHER FIGURE I CALL DADDY , & I AM HIS LITTLE GIRL SO TO SPEAK & AM TREATED AS SUCH & HE MAKES THE DECISIONS & WILL CORRECT & DISCIPLINE OUT OF LOVE IF NEEDED , THIS IS MORE COMMON THAN I EVER THOUGHT MOST ARE AFRAID TO SPEAK OF IT WANTING A FATHER FIGURE HAS LONG BEN THOUGHT OF IN A NEGATIVE LITE , THINK OF IT IN THIS WAY FOR A LITTLE GIRL W/ A GREAT RELATIONSHIP W/ HER DADDY WEN LITTLE IS SO IMPORTANT VERY VERY IMPORTANT & SHE LOVES HIM DEARLY & HER EYES LITE UP WEN SHE SEE'S HIM & HE THINKS SO HIGHLY OF HER AS WELL & SHE IS HIS WORLD HIS REASON FOR BEING , IF SHE DOESNT GET THIS RELATIONSHIP W/ HIM WEN LITTLE IT WILL BE DEVASTATING FOR HER IN HER LIFE MAYBE THRU OUT & SHE WILL ALWAYS SEEK OUT MEN FOR LOVE AFFECTION & ATTENTION & APPROVAL & MANY X IN ALL THE WRONG PLACES & W/ THE WRONG MEN UNLESS SHE COMES TO REALIZE SHE WANTS & NEEDS A FATHER FIGURE AS A MATE & FINDS A WILLING MAN THEN HER LIFE CAN BE COMPLETE BUT MANY MEN WILL USE HER B4 SHE REALIZES & FINDS THE RT MAN IF SHE DOES YOU ALSO WANT TO FIND A MAN THAT WANTS TO BE A DADDY ( THAT IS NOT A MAN THAT WANTS OR HAS EVER OR EVEN THOUGHT OF INCEST THIS TYPE OF RELATIONSHIP HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH INCEST PERIOD IT MAKES AN OLDER MAN FEEL POWERFUL ATTRACTIVE , WANTED, NEEDED & FOR SM THAT HAD ALREADY HAD FAMILES A WAY TO START OVER & HAVE MORE CONTROL OVER A MATE ( AS A CHILD WHO WANTS THAT & WILL ALLOW HIM TO DISCIPLINE & TREAT HER THAT WAY & MAKE THE DECISIONS , ECT SHE GETS A LOT OUT OF IT TOO SECURITY USUALLY A WORDLEY MAN .

PATIENT LOVING EMOTIONALY AVAILABLE & SO MUCH MORE .

Typically the daddy issues also involve a certain level of emotional incesst as well, and as a boyfriend or husband to a woman like this, it will be a constant battle to just try to be as good in the eyes of a woman with daddy issues. Thats right - unconditional love, like what parent has for a child.

Or what "daddy" has for his perfect, little princess. Women with daddy issues should never even date let alone get married until they get their heads cleared out.there is nothing wrong with a woman who wants a father figure as a mate it is very fullfilling for me & i dont believe you have to have real life father issues some may , my parents have ben married 58 yrs i do prefer a man older 20 yrs usually & did like this age diffrence before wanting a father figure / daddy & wen 1st asked to call a man daddy i resisted , but now its what i want & do like having a daddy very much & wish it was easier to find older men whom love to be daddys for younger women in real life relastionships like a dating site just for that wanting a father figure is not a negative but for the rt 2 people very full filling emotionaly ect for both of us they love the affection & attention just as i do & sm what of a disciplinarian & guidance teacher , lover , they are usually very stable ./ settled patient ect i dont want any thing but this this is what is rt for sm people , ive never had any thing more emotionaly fullfilling than the daddy baby girl relationship & it can be based on an age or not ?

After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads. For any guys even thinking about dealing with a woman like this, prepare for the ultimate battle royale for her heart - and yeah, with her dad, the guy that won't let her go.

It means that they have a daddy that refused to let them grow up, and took care of them emotionally, psychologically and financially well into their mid twenties and any new guy that enters their life (boyfriend or husband) is going to have to assume the role previously played by dad - and speaking from experience, it's a full time 24/7 job. She will expect you to love her unconditionally, take care of her every need and always tolerate her behavior, regardless of how immature or damaging to your relationship that it might be.

And B) the fact that she has some stuff to deal with hasn’t made you go running for the hills just yet is obviously a testament to you as a person, and how you feel about her (we ladies also often think if we are slightly damaged we might scare you off).