I've been reading a lot of stuff lately about people frustrated with dating.

Many people come from different cultures and religions or are not religious and where will they get married, how will they raise their children?

It is easier to marry someone of the same religion and a nice boy to take home to the parents.

It's a whole new flavor of disconcert and disbelief. They've got something wrong - their expectations are off. And right now, when you look at how dating in America and dating in much of the West plays out, you're seeing this wide-eyed, confused disbelief from a large segment of both the male and the female dating populations. You don't hear women over 40 complaining much how there are "no men to date" - even though women at that age have far fewer options than their younger, louder counterparts.

You also don't hear men over 40 complaining that "women skim right past them." So what's going on with the under-40 crowd that's got everybody so addled?

There was also that time my American date fought our waitress for giving me the hungry eyes while taking our order.

However, dating is a little more complicated and not what many people think.

This is not the 1980s and Poland is not the Soviet Union, nor was it ever.

Polish girls choose guys because they are in love and a subconscious component of this is they are compatible including culture. I do not know, it took a year for my wife to even would go out on a date me because she thought I was a foreign guy who wanted to play. It was funny one day I pulled out my Polish identity card after knowing her for about nine months.

Over the years I have been fortunate enough to date both Canadian and American girls. Over the years I have been visiting the country many times and have consistently been met within nothing less than grace and charm from the natives.

So in attempts to answer this philosophical question, I took a trip down memory lane to reflect on the difference between Canadian and American girls. In regards to dating I have found the women to be polite and gracious while also well equipped to demonstrate the proper etiquette required for any social situations.

While not all American girls are rude, they certainly do not hold the grace and charm of the Canadians.